Thursday, July 12, 2012

Big Bang Big Bang Big Bang !






Well ..sincerely ..honestly ..definitely ..absolutely ..I LOVE BIG BANG SO MUCH ! and TOP is the one who took my heart . Aww . Cant Breath anymore . What a very first time I lost myself from falling in love with someone . Noo I must be Mad !! But the feeling is great . Having someone important in your heart ..Wahoo ! Love 'em so much . but to bad so sad , Cant make it for their Alive galaxy tour 2012 due to the date is freaking near to my major exam - SPM ! :) What if they come to Malaysia again in 2 years time . Surely i will turn up and be one of the VIPs of Big Bang ! Sad na ...:(

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Finally . Officially .

To all the social website icluded you dear blogger .
I , Be Right Back ! I will be back soon :)

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Monday, June 25, 2012

Going to OFF for sometimes .

Running out of time , DEFINITELY . ABSOLUTELY ! What else can i say ? Besides than working hard working hard ..what else then ?? Live is short , make it rough , make it tough , its a world policy i think ? hmm..will really do the superb best . I had never treat something such a serius .I really meant it please , no doubt no laugh ! hahahah Okay Self control self control ...






Suz signing out

Monday, April 30, 2012

30 things that you should stop doing to yourself


As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”  Nothing could be closer to the truth.  But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back.
Here are some ideas to get you started:
  1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.  If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you.  You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.  Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth.  And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
  2. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on.  No, it won’t be easy.  There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them.  We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems.  That’s not how we’re made.  In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall.  Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time.  This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
  3. Stop lying to yourself. – You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself.  Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.  
  4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.  Yes, help others; but help yourself too.  If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
  5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you likeeveryone else.  Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you.  Don’t change so people will like you.  Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
  6. Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
  7. Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.  Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success.  You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
  8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us.  We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past.  But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.  Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
  9. Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive.  But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
  10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either.  You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.  
  11. Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place.  Evaluate situations and take decisive action.  You cannot change what you refuse to confront.  Making progress involves risk.  Period!  You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
  12. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.  Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
  13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely.  It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.  There’s no need to rush.  If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
  14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet.  Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you.  But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
  15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you.  Concentrate on beating your own records every day.  Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
  16. Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own.  Ask yourself this:  “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
  17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you.  You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough.  But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past.  You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation.  So smile!  Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
  18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart.  You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate.  Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.”  It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.”  Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself!  And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too.  If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.
  19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
  20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway.  Just do what you know in your heart is right.
  21. Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it.  If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.  Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
  22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.  The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
  23. Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.  
  24. Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile.  Don’t take the easy way out.  Do something extraordinary.
  25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart for a little while.  You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well.  You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears.  The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
  26. Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life.  When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.
  27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out.  But making one person smile CAN change the world.  Maybe not the whole world, but their world.  So narrow your focus.
  28. Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy.  One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time?  Three years?  Five years?”  If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
  29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen.  Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story.  If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
  30. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life.  Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs.  Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.


Friday, April 20, 2012

THE MASK

面具是人类的自我伪装与救赎......
面具探讨的是人与神的关系问题。在不可窥测的神灵面前,人总是显得弱小无力。庞大高耸的面具,是人为神所造的人间化身。通过面具,人类表达着对于神的崇敬与畏惧,掩饰着自己在世的孤独与无助,乞求着神灵无私的关爱与救赎——面具因而成真成圣,成为人类文化生活中高高在上的存在。
笼罩在这金钱与名利挂帅的不平凡社会,没有人是戴着属于自己的面具过日子。也许现在正在阅读这篇文章的你,一心认为你绝对不会是我所说的那些人,但你可否能担保以后的你也不会拥有一副不属于你的面具吗?那只有你心知肚明……      我们常用许多方法来保护我们的身体不论是外在或内在,假面具的运用便是方法之一。面具,一种让人看不到你真面貌的工具,让人看不到你的喜怒哀乐,看不到你的表情。
   人类是从什么时候开始戴假面具的?《圣 经》中说,当夏娃和亚当受蛇的诱惑吃了禁果以后,就再也不敢看上帝了,他们开始为自己的赤身裸体而害羞,、便用树叶来掩蔽自己的身体。大约,当人类穿上第 一件用树叶做成的衣服来遮蔽自己的身体时,他就懂得了戴假面具的用处。而我们认为,人类的假面具是随着私有观念的产生而出现的。当人类的祖先还处于原始的 穴居时代时,假面具对人类来说,是毫无用处的。随着时代变迁,为了保护自己,我们日复一日地用假面目掩饰着自己的赤裸裸的人性,小心地控制自己,以免我们 的身体不经意地泄露出隐藏在内心的真情实感。我们经常微笑,因为微笑不只是快乐和幽默的表示,也是道歉、防卫和谅解的表示。在街上不留意踩到了别人的脚,微笑就表示对不起,我不是故意侵犯你,请你原谅。
   在公共汽车上,因为车子的紧急刹车而撞上了其他的乘客,微笑就等于在说,我没有伤害你的意思,刹车使我身不由已,请你谅解。
   从上述的例子可以看出,即使在微笑的后面隐藏着愤怒和不耐烦,我们还是每天在微笑。在工作岗位上,我们对领导、对同事、对下属微笑;回到家里,我们对儿女、对邻居、对妻子或丈夫、对亲戚和朋友微笑。事实上,真正的微笑很少,大都是我们所戴的假面具而已。
每个人都有戴上假面具的资格,你也是!但记得把面具卸下,用你的真心去对待身边的至亲。

舒仪